Updated: Thursday, 03 Sep 2009, 12:41 PM EDT
Published : Thursday, 03 Sep 2009, 12:40 PM EDT
MYFOXNY.COM - More often than not, your first love is NOT the person you end up marrying, but there are many people who have reconnected with past flames and formed successful relationships.
So how do you know when it's right to hook up again?
Good Day NY's Andy Adler talked with a few experts including an author and a therapist about reconnecting.
Donna Hanover, former First Lady of New York City and author of 'My Boyfriend's Back,' says "there are psychological reasons that attracted you to someone early in your life especially if the breakup wasn't horrendous."
Dr. Jane Greer agrees. The therapist and relationship expert says you should remember why you broke up in the first place and make sure you don't just want what you can't have.
To make it easier on you, the experts suggest you try social networking sites. Write a simple note to the person you're interested in reconnecting with.
You never know what could happen.